Useful insights at random intervals
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A confession (about a confession) about NAIDOC week
I want to be proud of the indigenous heritage of the place I live (on Wurundjeri land). Rueben taught me that indigenous culture is a place-based culture. I want to be able to say key phrases in the local language. I want to learn the stories of this area so that they may live on as I teach them to my kids and other visitors to this place.
Are you using the wrong pronouns?
Whatever your preferred speech, I suggest you watch it again, and count the use of pronouns.
How many times does the speaker say "I" or "me"?
How many times do they say "you" or "them"?
And how many times do they say "we" or "us"?
Lead The Room
Today from my bookshelf I'm reading Lead The Room by my friend Shane Hatton. For thoughts about the nuances of quality, the value of practicality, and the power of metaphor, watch this video.
On increasing your influence
The beginner tries to influence a person's decisions by feeding them information. The expert influences a person's decisions by showing them a better filter.
Practice Your State, Not Your Script
Practice smiling at an imaginary crowd. Practice the pauses you'll make after sharing a key idea. Practice being a relaxed, confident version of you.
A guide to better public speaking
If you'd like to grow your business and career by speaking to an audience, this guide is my gift to you. I hope you find it valuable.
Seek simplicity
“[An artist] has achieved perfection not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.” — Antoine de Saint-Exupery
This is the life
I'm slowly going to start dipping my toes into work again, and I'm excited about a few pieces of work I've got scheduled for release soon, including Real Speaking Returns - a resource for executives, directors, partners and professionals seeking to leverage the commercial impact of public speaking opportunities
Fix nervous with service
When we start preparing a presentation, the default problem we seek to solve is an answer to the question "What am I going to say?".
A better question to answer might be "how can I help you?"
A better way to start writing a presentation
If you want your presentations to have a positive commercial impact, it's a step in the right direction.
If you’re not nervous you’re not growing
Public speaking creates a visceral reaction in almost everyone. The nervousness in anticipation of an upcoming speech can be torturous!
The best presentations are like conversations
When people are in conversation, they constantly think. They think about what they’re hearing, considering how they might respond, and constantly engaging in the thread of the discussion to consider how it aligns with their experiences of the world.
When public speaking, “good enough”… isn’t
As a high performer constantly seeking new frontiers to conquer, and as a leader in your organisation setting the standard for others to rise to, taking the stage hoping to be “good enough” simply won’t do.
What you say doesn’t matter, what they do does
When you know what you want your audience to do in response to your presentation, then you can start to think about what you might say in order to inspire them to action.