Useful insights at random intervals
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The power of narrative (and women's sport)
Many women's leagues and teams are so young that the stories and narratives are still developing.
Public speaking and the path of reconciliation
Audiences don't want perfection, they want connection.
You are what you read
But just as the old adage teaches that, physically, you are what you eat; I reckon intellectually, you are what you read.
Forget productive, be effective
Negative externalities show up everywhere, and unfortunately they often show up dumped by the side of the road in the otherwise pristine environment around my home in the foothills of Australia's Great Dividing Range.
What are you actually afraid of?
The simple fact is that real world is much less stressful and scary than the realms we inhabit in our minds.
Shift the tone of self improvement
Don't abandon the project of self-improvement. Instead, create experiments designed to work out what makes your inner puppy happy and achieves what you want to achieve.
You’re a bit weird (which is completely normal)
Humans are naturally evolved to form judgements incredibly rapidly. That’s useful where quick decision-making contributes to avoiding death on the savannah; less so in the modern world.
You need to be careful using your superpowers
Low scores indicate a deficiency, something you struggle to do or understand.
Above the line
If you’re interested in being a better leader, a better speaker, a better parent, or a better friend, you might find it useful to ask yourself the question: “Is this above the line?”
What it means to encourage
I’d like to conclude this little missive by offering you, dear reader, a bit of tiny courage. I encourage you to find someone in your life; friend, family, colleague, whoever; and offer them a bit of tiny courage.
A confession (about a confession) about NAIDOC week
I want to be proud of the indigenous heritage of the place I live (on Wurundjeri land). Rueben taught me that indigenous culture is a place-based culture. I want to be able to say key phrases in the local language. I want to learn the stories of this area so that they may live on as I teach them to my kids and other visitors to this place.
This is the life
I'm slowly going to start dipping my toes into work again, and I'm excited about a few pieces of work I've got scheduled for release soon, including Real Speaking Returns - a resource for executives, directors, partners and professionals seeking to leverage the commercial impact of public speaking opportunities
I'm not over Zoom
I hate to sound like a hipster, but I was using Zoom long before it was cool.
The best piece of career/relationship/life advice I've ever received
99% commitment is really hard.
The constant tension between your two selves
The experiencing self is the one that has to actually show up and do the work.
Here's why you're a bit f___ed up.
Building an identity is like bricklaying a house… except that you start laying the bricks when you’re two.